Navigating Difficult Passages with Dave Jenkins

Hello, dear ones, I hope this post finds you all doing well! I had the privilege of having Dave Jenkins from Servants of Grace on the program again for this two part discussion on interpretation. A while back I had the thought that it would be nice to do an entire series on verses that are difficult to understand, but with a mixed audience I didn’t want to teach Scripture. The solution was to have brothers in Christ that were solid theologically come on the show. When I brought this idea up with Dave he had the brilliant idea to teach how to deal with those difficult verses! As it was his idea, I clearly had to force bribe ask Dave nicely to do the honors. It’s a two part episode, I hope you all are as edified as I was!

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Below is a timestamped outline as well as links to find more information about Dave. Also, if you didn’t get a chance to see last weeks MEGA list, I’m going to link to it here. Big news, y’all, Tulips & Honey Hub now officially has it’s own app! You can, of course, listen across all major podcasting platforms such as PodbeanAmazon MusiciTunesSpotifyGoogle PlayiHeart RadioStitcher, and in video form on YouTube. As always, beloved brethren, be good Berean’s and study to show yourselves approved.

TS 00:02:20 – Why is it important for women to know how to rightly interpret Scripture?

TS 00:05:20 – What is the difference in inerrancy of Scripture and the accuracy of translations?

TS 00:11:10 – Do you recommend when studying Scripture using multiple translations and Strongs Concordance? 

TS 00:13:15 – Can you give us some examples of difficult passages?

TS 00:23:35 – How do we get to the point where lay people are being taught these things in their churches?

TS 00:24:40 – Ways we can handle the hard verses in the Bible

TS 00:35:00 – The importance of context

For more information about Dave you can check out his website here: https://servantsofgrace.org

You can find Dave’s book The Word Explored: https://www.amazon.com/Word-Explored-Problem-Biblical-Illiteracy/dp/1989174868

Subscribe to Dave’s podcast Servants of Grace here: https://servantsofgrace.org/subscribe-to-podcast/

Links to find Dave on Social Media:

Twitter:https://twitter.com/DaveJJenkins

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MeWe: https://mewe.com/i/davejenkins18

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Prayer Request: Afghanistan and Susan Heck

Hello, dear ones, I hope this post finds you all doing well! This morning we heard the sad news that Susan Heck’s husband, who had been fighting COVID Pneumonia, passed away. Doug Heck was a graduate of Moody and The Master’s Seminary, he served faithfully as the senior pastor for Grace Community Church of Tulsa, and just as faithfully was a husband to his wife for 46 years. Please join us in praying for Susan, their family, and their congregation. Just as we rejoice that Doug has gone to glory, we mourn with Susan and their loved ones.

The second prayer request I have comes from the recent upheaval of the Afghan government by the Taliban due to the removal of our troops from the country. While it’s true that there will be long term concerns, I ask that you would take time to pray for the believers, missionaries, and volunteers that are now at great risk. Many of them are trying to leave, others don’t have that option. We’ve already seen a return to the horrid treatment of women and children, as well as the cruelty and malice this group of terrorists are best known for. God is sovereign, and in the face of persecution and hardship the Church grows while faith deepens. Thank you for joining me in praying, my friends. As always, beloved brethren, be good Berean’s and study to show yourselves approved.

Different Worldview’s for The End Times

The topic of eschatology is one that I have enjoyed learning about, but have found it difficult to grasp all the different opinions. So I was really very thankful for the opportunity to dig deeper. No matter how deep I dug, I still didn’t hit the bottom…or even close. Instead, I recorded this episode giving a basic explanation of each viewpoint. Hopefully, this will be helpful for y’all, and if I’ve gotten anything wrong please let me know!

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Also, if you didn’t get a chance to see last weeks MEGA list, I’m going to link to it here. Big news, y’all, Tulips & Honey Hub now officially has it’s own app! You can, of course, listen across all major podcasting platforms such as PodbeanAmazon MusiciTunesSpotifyGoogle PlayiHeart RadioStitcher, and in video form on YouTube. As always, beloved brethren, be good Berean’s and study to show yourselves approved.

TS 00:17:40 – Etymology of Eschatology

TS 00:25:35 – Etymology of Millennialism

TS 00:27:05 – Etymology of Parousia

TS 00:28:25 – Premillennialism

TS 00:42:10 – Amillennialism

TS 00:45:10 – Postmillennialism

The Last Days According to Jesus by R. C. Sproul: https://www.ligonier.org/store/the-last-days-according-to-jesus-paperback

Book Review: The Wars of the Jews by Flavius Josephus: https://biblicalbeginningsblog.wordpress.com/2019/05/23/thursday-book-review-the-wars-of-the-jews-by-flavius-josephus/

R. C. Sproul’s lectures on Eschatology: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n22MRa0P6_I&list=PL30acyfm60fWm9jA8LNRnYizJj5VEduus

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Christian clichés with Justin Hereford

Hello, dear ones, I hope this post finds you all doing well! We’ve all heard Christian cliche’s, some of us have even used them, but are they Biblical? According to polls, 81% of professing Christians actually believe that one of these phrases is a genuine Bible verse. But here’s the kicker, not only are NONE of these in the Word of God, most of them are completely unbiblical. I brought my amazingly wonderful, utterly handsome husband, Justin Hereford, onto the program today to break these down Scripturally and logically. We even give some options for more doctrinally sound phrases to replace them. I’d love to hear if you’ve got any quotes we missed, or if there were any on our lists that you’ve found particularly frustrating.

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Below is a timestamped outline as well as the verses mentioned in today’s episode. Also, if you didn’t get a chance to see last weeks MEGA list, I’m going to link to it here. Big news, y’all, Tulips & Honey Hub now officially has it’s own app! You can, of course, listen across all major podcasting platforms such as PodbeanAmazon MusiciTunesSpotifyGoogle PlayiHeart RadioStitcher, and in video form on YouTube. As always, beloved brethren, be good Berean’s and study to show yourselves approved.

TS 00:05:45 – God won’t give you anything you can’t handle

For we do not want you to be unaware, brothers, of the affliction we experienced in Asia. For we were so utterly burdened beyond our strength that we despaired of life itself. 2 Cor. 1:8 

TS 00:16:25 – God wants you happy, wealthy, and wise? 

Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 1 John 2:15

81% of Christians believe this is in the Bible poll – https://somajc.org/god-helps-those/

TS 00:22:00 – There is a reason for everything…

TS 26:45 – Forgive and forget

The prudent sees danger and hides himself,

    but the simple go on and suffer for it. Proverbs 22:3

TS 00:32:00 – Listen to your heart?

The heart is deceitful above all things,

    and desperately sick;

    who can understand it? Jeremiah 17:9

For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander. Matthew 15:19

TS 00:36:00 – God helps those who help themselves.

TS 00:42:55 – If God closes a door He’ll open a window?

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Through the Narrow: CRT in CRU? – By Gina Cook

If you haven’t heard of Critical Race Theory (CRT) you may very well be living under a rock. It now frequents many t.v. channels, radio stations, podcasts, seminars, and personal discussions because, sadly, it has not only taken root in our government, entertainment industries, and education systems, it is infecting many church bodies and ministries.

Sadly, one of those is Cru.

But before I get into that, if you happen to be one of those unfamiliar with CRT or if you’d like to know more about it I suggest checking out these few sources that have correctly explained why it’s an unbiblical theory and should be rejected:

What is the critical race theory, and how should a Christian view it? | GotQuestions.org

Fault Lines: The Social Justice Movement and Evangelicalism’s Looming Catastrophe: Voddie Baucham Jr.: 9781684511808 – Christianbook.com

EP # 108 | Critical Race Theory – YouTube

 

What is Cru?

“Cru was originally called Campus Crusade for Christ International (CCCI) in the United States. In 2011 they changed the name to Cru in an effort to disassociate from the negative connotations of the historical Crusades, which were military conquests by European Catholics intended to reclaim the Holy Land from Muslims in the 11th to 13th centuries. The new name, Cru, better suits their focus as well, since they reach out beyond college campuses.”  Taken from:

What is Cru (Campus Crusade for Christ or CCCI), and what are their beliefs? | GotQuestions.org  

Many of you may not only be familiar with Cru (Campus Crusade for Christ) but have a close and encouraging connection to it.  Perhaps you know a faithful Christian who is/was involved with it and have seen biblical good come from their involvement.  I want to be clear, there are pockets of good found in Cru.  There are individuals who do ministry work within Cru who are focused on the Gospel alone, discipling others, and who avoid CRT and the social gospel because they know they are unbiblical.  Please pray for these people to stand strong, to continue to be light and salt, and to have continued discernment as the worldliness intensifies within these once biblically sound organizations.

Cru, like many others and perhaps inadvertently, are redefining the Gospel. That is what CRT helps to do. It’s a religion that perpetuates a new way to look at depravity and justice. Those who support social justice and CRT demand us to repent of ancestral sins, to admit certain shades of skin are privileged and problematic and that we have to be inclusive and willing to listen to the culture. They not only teach we can judge hearts by outward appearances and ethnicities but they, in essence, teach those certain skin shades cannot have real and lasting forgiveness. These promoters say we must identify with these redefined terms on a personal level as we identify to be either oppressors or the oppressed. We are to focus attention on what seems hopeless and chaotic rather than on sharing the true Gospel of Jesus Christ to all equally. What ministries like Cru are now doing essentially, is the devil’s work.  The devil is our accuser (Revelation 12:10) and hates the idea of forgiveness.  He desires for us to feel hopeless as we take on the unnecessary weight of things we have no control of in the first place and to try to alleviate the burden by powerless rituals and works.  Jesus says, “Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”Matthew 11:29-30.

Jon Harris has spent a great amount of time exposing Cru’s woke agenda. He has done an excellent job in breaking down the concerns.  Here are a few of his videos on the matter:

CRU Goes Down the Woke Hole – YouTube #1

A Deeper Dive into Cru’s Decline – YouTube #2

In these videos it is shown what was said by Cru at a 2019 staff conference.  Diversity, racial inequities, white privilege, redistribution, unrepentant nation, and desire to uproot American systems and demonize churches are some of the things we hear from the speakers.  The conference was bleeding CRT indoctrination.  It was highly emotional.  Some speakers were screaming and one was asking everyone in the room to lament at her prompt- after she would talk of all people not defending the oppressed or taking up the cause of the fatherless or pleading the case of the widows (As if she knew every heart and life in the room) and that as a whole we (white people essentially) are privileged racists.  When a white woman in the audience tearfully asks what she can do, the answer is basically “nothing” because she had been so privileged throughout life and reaps the endless benefits.  Ultimately there is no forgiveness offered or given.  

Cru’s president, Steve Douglas, apologized for not being sensitive enough to culture and announced he would enroll in “sensitive training” at the Lenses Institute.  Lenses is mostly full of Hollywood-splaining for cultural issues.  It has little if any, Christian sources it uses to try and help us navigate through societal problems.  It is a Sociology class done through Hollywood movies and the woke-stream media.  It is not something that should or could be used to grow us in the knowledge of Christ, to better explain the Scriptures, or add anything of real value to our lives.  We pray that Steve wakes up to the lie of CRT and see how it goes against the Word of God.

Cru had put up this statement regarding the conference: “Our theme for this year was be*cause (not a typo): celebrating together both the cause that God has called us to and the fact that God also wants us to be…be in His presence and be in love with Him.”

No, that was not the theme. The actual theme was CRT.  Even if this statement was the theme, it’s still watered down, unhelpful and vague.  Perhaps vagueness and veneer were the goals.  One thing was clear, the true Gospel was not the focus at all.

In this link we see an interview with Scott Willis, who had recently finished an internship with Cru:

Former Cru Intern Shares Story about Ministry’s Leftward Drift – YouTube

According to Scott, CRT is increasingly present within the organization.  He states that there is definitely a social justice movement within Cru.  “Don’t go against the team” mentality is used to silence those who may have objections, he explains.  Listening to Scott, it seemed it is job security to get on the CRT bandwagon. Thankfully, he clarifies that not every corner of Cru and not every person involved in Cru is supporting it.

King David a Rapist? & Confirmed: Cru Endorses Social Gospel – YouTube This is a response to the response of those leading Cru (start watching at 31:30 mark). Steve Sellers (EVP of Cru) and Matt Mikalatos (Program Director of Cru) stated that these above accusations done by those like Jon Harris are not true despite the proof of them being true from their very own platforms (Cru ’19, staff conferences, and website). I’m not surprised this is their response.    They have to ignore the problems that arise when embracing cultural fads in order to appease the culture.  They believe they can have both a social gospel and the true Gospel.  

We must make sure we look at the proof instead of just taking their word for it as they deny the validity of other’s concerns. 

Regarding was is found on their actual site, it’s more than enough material to question the direction of Cru – the concerns are not just from one staff conference:

https://www.cru.org/us/en/about/oneness-and-diversity/resources/uncertain.html

Resources on Racial Injustice | Cru

They list recommended resources such as PBS, Thabiti Anyabwile, Jemar Tisby, Judy Wu Dominick, Oprah Winfrey, Isabel Wilkerson, and Mark Noll… the list is long and very concerning.  No ministry should endorse these known promoters of the social gospel/CRT, let alone let them teach within your walls.  Never should the worldly teachers be a tool you use to try and edify the Body or to grow in Christ.  

In conclusion, the amount of pandering to the woke culture is sickening, and no Christian ministry has any business doing such.  We can’t have the culture dictating our walk with God.  We will compromise and stumble ourselves and others if we do.   

It is God’s Word alone that is the lamp to our feet and the light to our path (Psalm 119:105).  May God wake those professing Christ and promoting CRT out of their slumber and lead them to repentance and true devotion to Him and His Word alone. 

“But I am afraid that, as the serpent deceived Eve by his craftiness, your minds will be led astray from the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ. For if one comes and preaches another Jesus whom we have not preached, or you receive a different spirit which you have not received, or a different gospel which you have not accepted, you bear this beautifully.” 2 Corinthians 11:3-4



Above is an article written by Gina Cook, Gina and Tami write Through the Narrow here at Tulips & Honey Hub. They’ll be posting articles every other Tuesday. Both are published authors, you can find Tami’s book here, and Gina’s book here. We’re blessed to have them apart of our team, and pray their writing will be as edifying to you as it is to us. – Lauren Hereford

Reckless Worship with Kristin Everett

Hello, dear ones, I hope this post finds you all doing well! A few weeks ago I got a call from Kristin Everett, yup that Kristin Everett! The one whose totally a TikTok star but argues with me every time I say so. She was working on a series of posts on Tiktok explaining the theology behind certain “worship” songs by going verse by verse. That conversation led to an entire episode! That’s what I have for you today, a discussion about the seriousness of worship, and why we should be taking this very seriously.

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Below is a list of resources mentioned during the discussion. Also, if you didn’t get a chance to see last weeks MEGA list, I’m going to link to it here. Big news, y’all, Tulips & Honey Hub now officially has it’s own app! You can, of course, listen across all major podcasting platforms such as PodbeanAmazon MusiciTunesSpotifyGoogle PlayiHeart RadioStitcher, and in video form on YouTube. As always, beloved brethren, be good Berean’s and study to show yourselves approved.

My review of the first Apology of Justin Martyr’s here: https://wordpress.com/posts/biblicalbeginningsblog.wordpress.com?s=Justin+martyr

My review of the second Apology of Justin Martyr’s here: https://wordpress.com/posts/biblicalbeginningsblog.wordpress.com?s=Justin+martyr

Justin Peter’s discussing music: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=883104348830367

More information about Athanasius and Arius: https://wordpress.com/posts/biblicalbeginningsblog.wordpress.com?s=arius

R. C. Sproul explaining Arian heresy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DEN45HiNVWc

Strange Fire Q&A: Part 1 – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhG2CBVQy3w

Part 2 – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pt9SGH9NVP8

Susan Heck: https://www.withthemaster.org

Michelle Lesley: https://michellelesley.com

You can find Kristin on TikTok sharing the Gospel and the truth about Gods Word here:

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJVg6Vgo/​

If you’d like to check out the three part interview I did with Kristin you can find them all here:

Part I: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xMqk2…

Part II: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b35IH…

Part III: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlopZELah4M&t=48s

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Is America in a Covenant with God? With Patrick Studabaker

Hello, dear ones, I hope this post finds you all doing well! Awhile back I was talking with a sister-in-Christ who was concerned with a specific well known figure posting videos that clearly idolized America. It reminded me of something I learned a long time ago, which led to this episode. This was one of those topics that I had to drag my brother bee Patrick from Cave to the Cross into, because it’s too much fun not to! I am seriously so thankful for him joining me, and giving me so much of his time, to discuss what boils down to a mixing of Christianity with nationalism. The premise for today’s episode is the idea that George Washington created a covenant with God for America. We also discuss Jonathan Cahn’s The Harbinger, a great deal of philosophy, and theology. Below is a list of resources mentioned during the discussion, as well as a timestamped outline.Below is a list of resources mentioned during the discussion, as well as a timestamped outline. Also, if you didn’t get a chance to see last weeks MEGA list, I’m going to link to it here. Big news, y’all, Tulips & Honey Hub now officially has it’s own app! You can, of course, listen across all major podcasting platforms such as PodbeanAmazon MusiciTunesSpotifyGoogle PlayiHeart RadioStitcher, and in video form on YouTube. As always, beloved brethren, be good Berean’s and study to show yourselves approved.

TS 00:05:15 – Tell us about your podcast and what’s coming up!

TS 00:08:30 – Who all have you interviewed?

TS 00:14:30 – What book are you currently working through and what’s coming up next?

TS 00:20:10 – Are there any books you guys won’t touch?

TS 00:26:15 – How did you get into philosophy and why is it so important?

TS 00:32:45 – Challenging Patrick to segue from philosophy into today’s topic Muahaha 

TS 00:38:15 –  Did GW make a covenant with God?

TS 00:45:00 – Can we be thankful to be in a specific country?

TS 01:10:00 – What is the best way to help families/friends who are caught up in books like The Harbinger? 

TS 01:20:00 – Point #1 Exegesis

TS 01:26:10 – Point #2 Nothing in context has to do with future events.

TS 01:27:45 – Point #3  How is this different than other false prophecies?

TS 01:31:20 – Point #4 Can it be applied to anything else?

TS 01:38:30 – How will you handle the rebuke from God on the day of judgement due to your sinful indulgence of pineapple pizza?

Resources:

Veritas Domain blog: https://veritasdomain.wordpress.com

Moral Case for Fossil Fuels: https://www.amazon.com/Moral-Case-Fossil-Fuels/dp/1591847443

God Dwells Among Us: https://www.amazon.com/God-Dwells-Among-Us-Expanding/dp/0830844147

Exposit the Word: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpositTheWord/videos

Shirt from Exposit the Word: https://exposit-the-word-merch.creator-spring.com/listing/i-can-do-all-things-out-of-con?product=2

For more information about Cave to the Cross Apologetics: 

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Critical Race Theory & Intersectionality with Dr. Josh Buice

For our 100th episode here on Tulips & Honey we have a very special guest joining the program today! It was such a privilege to have Dr. Josh Buice discussing CRT and intersectionality with me, it’s such an important topic. I’m so thankful for his explanations and the stand he’s taken against the Social Justice movement. I’ve added an outline for today’s episode, as well as all the links to books and resources mentioned by Dr. Buice. Also, if you didn’t get a chance to see last weeks MEGA list, I’m going to link to it here. Big news, y’all, Tulips & Honey Hub now officially has it’s own app! You can, of course, listen across all major podcasting platforms such as PodbeanAmazon MusiciTunesSpotifyGoogle PlayiHeart RadioStitcher, and in video form on YouTube. As always, beloved brethren, be good Berean’s and study to show yourselves approved.

TS 00:02:45 – Josh shares his testimony

TS 00:07:45 – How can we help make people aware of false converts in church?

TS 00:11:45 – Do you have any encouragement for pastors of small churches?

TS 00:13:20 – What is the Gospel?

TS 00:18:15 – What is CRT, Intersectionality, and Social Justice?

Cynical Theories by James Lindsey: https://www.amazon.com/Cynical-Theories-Scholarship-Everything-Identity_and/dp/1634312023/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1624896376&sr=8-1

Intersectionality Score website: https://intersectionalityscore.com

TS 00:29:30 – How did you become concerned with CRT?

TS 00:35:00 – Sign the Dallas Statement on Social Justice: https://statementonsocialjustice.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/SSJG-FINAL.pdf

TS 00:36:45 – What do you think about the SBC’s Resolution 9?

TS 00:44:00 – What is the difference between reparations and atonement?

TS 00:47:00 – Equity vs Equality by Just Thinking:

TS 00:49:00 – How do we address CRT slipping into our churches?

TS 00:51:00 – Should someone consider leaving their church if they continue teaching CRT?

TS 00:54:30 – Resources recommended for listeners/viewers to learn more:

1. Statementonsocialjustice.com

2. https://newdiscourses.com

3. Faultlines by Voddie Baucham: https://www.amazon.com/Fault-Lines-Movement-Evangelicalisms-Catastrophe/dp/1684511801

TS 00:59:20 – What are some things/tactics you recommend believers use and some you might recommend we avoid using, when discussing CRT/SJW/BLM with others?

Ad Hominem: https://biblicalbeginningsblog.wordpress.com/2018/03/30/series-on-logic-ad-hominem/

TS 01:02:00 – Listeners Questions

TS 01:02:20 – Is it time to leave the SBC?

TS 01:08:30 – Any seminaries you can recommend that are standing against CRT?

The Master’s Seminary: https://tms.edu

BMA: https://bmats.edu

Grace Bible Seminary: https://www.gbtseminary.org

TS 01:10:50 – What are the subtle signs of CRT is seeping into my church?

TS 01:12:20 – Any materials that would help children understand CRT?

Westminster Kid’s Catechism: https://reformed.org/historic-confessions/the-childrens-catechism/

Paul Washer’s Catechism: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sM2u44pd4Ac&list=PLC8D6BFB3FBA4522C

Catechism blog resources: https://www.reformedmama.com/childrens-catechism

01:16:30 – What do you have coming up that we can look forward to?

G3: https://g3min.org

01:20:15 – How do you feel about pineapple pizza?

01:22:30 – How can we be praying for you?

Delivered by Grace: https://g3min.org/blogs/josh-buice/

For more information about Dr. Buice you can find him on social media:

Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshBuice

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshBuice

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshbuice/

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Through the Narrow: Where Is Your Fear Of The Lord? – By Tami Dykes

Where Is Your Fear Of The Lord?    

Do you have any fear of the Lord? I can tell you according to Scriptures God says we should fear Him. This is a problem for many people. Many don’t think it’s right to fear the Lord because why would a loving God bring fear to their children?   

Fear of the Lord is something different than just being scared of Him or fearing for your life or feeling terror…it’s having respect and reverence for Him as our Lord.  I love Him and respect Him and I know He is a just God and He rewards and punishes those He loves and having fear of the Lord is right and holy and it’s fear that keeps me humble and keeps me seeking Him. Hebrews 12:28–29~ Therefore let us be grateful for receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, and thus let us offer to God acceptable worship, with reverence and awe, for our God is a consuming fire.   

Another verse Proverbs 1:7~ The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and instruction.   

I have joy and peace in the Lord and when I sin there is a degree of separation from God for a time that I fear. I instantly know I’ve stepped out of His will that has protected me and I feel the separation of his presence. Isaiah 59:2~ But your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God, and your sins have hidden his face from you so that he does not hear.   

It brings shame, guilt and I can even feel nauseous. He knows what I’ve done or didn’t do, said, thought, or felt that brings me so much sadness. The separation hurts because you know He can’t be with you when you are in sin and all you feel is regret and disappointment in your own self. Then as always, Scriptures remind you of how loving and forgiving God is because He offers repentance. God will not leave or forsake Christians that do sin. We experience separation from our Lord as a form of discipline to grow us. Those that don’t believe in God don’t have a fear of Him or His judgment which only leads to the worst separation of all, the eternal separation from God. 
   

People that read the Bible, attend a Biblical church, and bear the name Christian should have no excuse to not fear the Lord. In my last article, I spoke on how short life is and where people may spend eternity. I spoke of several that were shown mercy by God and saved such as the blind man and the thief on the cross. Both were able to understand their need for forgiveness and salvation when they met Jesus and didn’t reject Him. However, there are people that claim to be Christians and believers in Christ that write books and hold studies and even serve as Pastors that live without fear of the Lord. They teach others a false God and blaspheme His character and tag God’s name on teachings that are NOT Biblical at all. These teachings are done without having fear of the Lord or the fear of consequence in any way for going against God. They don’t seem to be worried about the false teachings they spout that God never taught. They didn’t seem to show any concern that they put more faith in their own feelings than the truth in what God actually tells us in the Scriptures.    

The deaths of a well know man and woman come to mind with this subject. The first one is Billy Graham. He died on February 21, 2018, at the age of 99. He seemed to have changed his belief from his younger years as one that believed the only way to heaven was through Jesus, compared to his later years of believing there were many ways to heaven. In an interview with ‘Robert Schuller, Graham is asked, “What’s the future of Christianity”.  Graham says, “The body of Christ that comes from all the Christian groups from around the world or outside the Christian groups from around the World I think everybody that loves Christ, or knows Christ whether they are conscious of it or not, they’re members of the body of Christ. And that is what God is doing today, He’s calling people out of the world for His name, whether they come from the Muslim world, or the Buddhist world, or the Christian world, or the non-believing world, they are members of the body of Christ because they have been called by God. They may not even know the name of Jesus but they know in their heart they need something that they don’t have, and they turn to the only light that they have, and I think that they are saved and that they’re going to be with us in heaven.    

       

Ok, lots to unpack here. If people can be saved without knowing God or knowing the Gospel then why does God tell us to go out into the world to find those that “don’t know God” and preach the gospel? Graham believed people who are outside the Biblical Christian groups are saved, meaning they are not Christian and are non-believers. This doesn’t sound like the Gospel of Christ as written in the Scriptures. Let Scriptures reveal the truth to you, read Matthew 7:21-23 where we are told not everyone who calls on Him will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only those who do the will of the Father. They are to know God’s will, which means they need to know God. In Mark 16:15-16, we are commanded togo into the entire world and preach the gospel to everyone,“He who believes and is baptized will be saved, but he who does not believe will be condemned.” This clearly points out you can’t be an unbeliever and be saved.  It’s just not going to happen. John 14:6~“Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” 1 Corinthians 1:17~ “For Christ did not send me to baptize but to preach the gospel, and not with words of eloquent wisdom, lest the cross of Christ be emptied of its power.”       

These verses explain why people can NOT find their way to God in any other way except through knowing and believing in Jesus Christ. We cannot be Muslim, or Buddhist, or a non-believer and still, be saved. How can a non-believer be of the body of Christ if they don’t believe in Jesus?  If a person is truly saved, they would only claim to be a believer in Christ. Remember, “He who does not believe will be condemned.”Graham’s words and God’s words contradict each other.       

Graham says that They may not even know the name of Jesus so they turn to the only light they have and will be in heaven.”    

Ok, so let’s think about this…How can we believe in something we don’t believe in? How can you love or even know something you are not conscious of? How can we be aware of something we aren’t aware of? How can we know something we didn’t know? Scriptures even tell us in Romans 10:14~ “How then are they to call on Him in whom they have not believed? How are they to believe in Him whom they have not heard? And how are they to hear without a preacher? Good question! We all know that Graham was a preacher but he wasn’t saying what people needed to hear. Graham should have been bold and said that if they don’t know Jesus and are a non-believer or practicing Buddhists, or Muslims then they are not saved. All kinds of false religions say they believe in God but their god is not the God of the Bible. You can’t go to heaven believing in a different God like the god of Buddha or the god of the Muslims or the god of “Everyone can get to heaven without believing in Jesus” god.     

In Deuteronomy 6:14 and Jeremiah 25:6 we are warned not to go after other gods.Isaiah 44:6 says “besides me, there is no god.” With Graham being a pastor it’s very strange that he credits a “light” to salvation when he says, “they turn to the only light they have.” Salvation is through Jesus, not through having a light. If they are turning to the only light they have yet it’s not from Jesus, then it’s not of God, and if it’s not of God, it’s not the true light they need. Their light is counterfeit and weak. I might also add that Satan is “LIGHT” too! 2 Corinthians 11:14~And no wonder, for Satan himself, masquerades as an angel of light.”      

In another interview, Larry King asks Billy if God loves Satan, all he said was, “Well, he created him as Lucifer. In the 22nd of Ezekiel, it tells us about it, and he must love him, but the end of Satan is hell. Hell was created for the devil and his angels, or his demons, not for men.” Then King asked if he thought homosexuality is a sin. Graham says he believes marriage is between a man and a woman. Then King says, “If homosexuality isn’t a choice, it can’t be a sin. Right?” Graham says, “Well, maybe. God will make that judgment, not me. I’m not deciding who’s a sinner and who is not.” King says, “How about abortion?” Graham says, “Same thing.” King asks him if he is against it totally and Graham says, “yes but I won’t get involved in it.” King asks if he believes it’s the taking of a life and Graham says yes, he does. King says, “But to protect the life of a mother you would permit it, right? I think you said that.” Graham says,“Oh, yes.”     

(you can find both links to these interviews at bottom of this article)    

       

With Graham being a preacher, his job is to warn the sheep of dangers and keep them safe. Doesn’t that mean for him to warn when something is sin and that Jesus is the ONLY way? Anyone that teaches the Word of God needs to be careful in handling God’s Word, and be very respectful of it, don’t you think?  As Christians, we should know what sin is yet every time King asks Graham if something was a sin Graham never just says, yes, it’s a sin. He just gave what appears to be his opinion on things and then tells the viewers that God judges, not him and that he’s not deciding who’s a sinner and who is not. He had a platform in which to speak the truth and point people to Christ but doesn’t. Oh, I understand his fear, I’ve been there and it’s not easy. I’ve upset many but you do it anyway. We either have a fear of man or we have a fear of God. Obviously, Graham had more of a fear of man because he doesn’t speak the truth. Graham makes the statement that Christians don’t judge. So, how are we to discern God’s commands if we are not allowed to judge sin or discern right from wrong? Having discernment means knowing right from wrong according to the law of God. If God says not to commit adultery, to keep the marriage bed pure, do not murder then to do any of that as a Christian or preacher or pastor means to know it’s a sin. Graham should have exposed the sin and said, yes, homosexuality is a sin, yes abortion is murder and murder is sin. Graham taught that he doesn’t judge sin and everyone goes to heaven. What’s troubling is Graham did teach some good things so it makes him look good but then turned around and contradicted God’s own Scriptures. When Graham says “God must love Satan because God made him” makes light of Satan. Satan is evil, why would God love evil? He doesn’t. Psalm 11:5The Lord tests the righteous, but his soul hates the wicked and the one who loves violence.   

Psalm 5:5~  The boastful shall not stand before your eyes; you hate all evildoers.   

There is a perfect answer to this simple question with the following link below, “No, God does not love Satan, and neither should we. God cannot love that which is evil and unholy, and Satan embodies all of that. He is the enemy (1 Peter 5:8); the evil one (Matthew 6:13); the father of lies and a murderer (John 8:44); the accuser of God’s people (Revelation 12:10); the tempter (1 Thessalonians 3:5); proud, wicked and violent (Isaiah 14:12-15); a deceiver (Acts 13:10); a schemer (Ephesians 6:11); a thief (Luke 8:12); and many more evil things. He is, in fact, everything that God hates. The heart of Satan is fixed and confirmed in his hatred of God, his judgment is final, and his destruction is sure. Revelation 20 describes God’s future plan for Satan, and love for Satan has no part in it.”   

https://www.gotquestions.org/does-God-love-Satan.html

There is a very popular yet unbiblical saying that goes around in the Christian community, “God loves the sinner and hates the sin”. Although that seems loving for a God to love, love, and love some more and love everyone even if you live in sin, it’s just not biblical. We need to understand that it’s the sinner that is thrown into Hell, not the sin.   

Sadly, Graham is still leading people astray today with those videos and interviews even though he is gone. Where was Graham’s fear of the Lord? Saying those things should have convicted him instantaneously. I noticed when King asked a question about a certain sin; Graham never truly addressed it or called it sin or quotes Scriptures of what God says about it. He just gently reminds the viewers that God forgives whatever sin you have. Nothing is said about them needing to repent and ask for forgiveness. Many will see it as they don’t need to repent because God loves the sinner and automatically forgive us.   

Next, the woman I referred to is Rachel Held Evans, she died May 4, 2019, at the age of 37, and left behind a husband and two children. She died so young and so suddenly it was a shock to many people. She wrote books, had blogs and many believed in her teachings to be good. None of that is wrong until you look at what it was she actually taught. Long story short, she taught that God is not a ‘dude’ (her words) and has referred to God as a woman and mother at different times. She supports LGBTQ causes and contradicts what God says women’s roles are in the church and denies and rejects the authority of God’s Word and teachings.         

For more information on RHE, Michelle Lesley provides info below with attached links as well.  https://michellelesley.com/2016/10/10/the-mailbag-do-you-recommend-these-teachersauthors-volume-2/       

I know many believe that talking ill of the dead is wrong and disrespectful but I say it’s downright evil to speak ill of the Lord and make Him out to be something He’s not. Rachel has disrespected God and His teachings in the things she has said about Him. It’s out of respect for God and His Truth that I speak of her false teachings because we should not hold our tongue when it comes to exposing lies and sharing the truth of the Scriptures. According to God, we are to warn of false teachings and that’s more important than respecting someone’s death. I’m sure people could say she was a nice person but the deception and poison she taught to the thousands of her followers are very concerning and wrong. What is more concerning for her is if she never repented of them, God will hold her responsible for every careless word she spoke and taught. Matthew 12:35–37~“The good person out of his good treasure brings forth good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure brings forth evil. I tell you, son the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words, you will be condemned.”       

I knew nothing of Rachel until a few days after she died. I saw pictures of her posted on Facebook by several different people and became curious about who she was and why so many were posting about her. I discovered many things about her beliefs but it was an article by Pastor Gabriel Hughes that shocked me most and showed where she stood just weeks before she died. I was disheartened by the deadly teachings she spewed just shortly before her last breath. She defended her beliefs in her comments to the very end of her write-up to Pastor Gabriel which was concerning a video he made titled, “Is God a Woman?”, below       

Gabriel says, “Though I will never have another opportunity to address Rachel, what she taught continues to damage the souls of countless thousands of people, and will do so for many more years. What I had prepared to say to her, I say now for the sake of those misled by her teaching.”       

Below is Pastor Gabriel article; http://pastorgabehughes.blogspot.com/2019/06/remembering-and-responding-to-rachel.html       

Her beliefs were so disturbing but my heart truly hurts for her. I found it surprising that not knowing anything of her before; I would now suddenly find my heart so sad concerning her. I then started thinking of those who are still being fed her books and teachings. Sadly, and unfortunately, there is no more we can do for Rachel. No one can try to reach out to her and help her see her unbiblical ways; no one can help her know the truth of who God is. It’s too late. What time we Christians do have should be to fight for the faith, to fight for the Truth. Her very last act as a living, breathing human being was to take that dark stand and completely destroy the truth of who God is, and then suddenly, just 3 short days after that she became seriously ill and put into the hospital with the flu and infection. She died about 3 weeks later. No one knows if she could have been aware enough to even repent of all that. She could have, but no one knows. Even if she did repent, she left behind teachings that many will still be hurt by today and will cause some to doubt God for years to come. Rachel Held Evans is described as a progressive Christian author but I don’t think of her as a Christian because she taught a different God and a different Bible and she had no fear of the Lord even up to her last posts with Pastor Gabriel.    

Links to Billy Graham’s interviews below.       

http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0506/16/lkl.01.html       



Above is an article written by Tami Dykes, Gina and Tami write Through the Narrow here at Tulips & Honey Hub. They’ll be posting articles every other Tuesday. Both are published authors, you can find Tami’s book here, and Gina’s book here. We’re blessed to have them apart of our team, and pray their writing will be as edifying to you as it is to us. – Lauren Hereford

Through the Narrow: Life is Short, Eternity is Forever – By Tami Dykes

Life Is Short, Eternity Is Forever 

While waiting in the E.R. my youngest brother says to me, “Tami, I’m dying.” This was already understood by the whole family but he had never said those words before.  After a few seconds, I broke the silence with, “Well, we are all dying, none of us get out of this life alive.” I know that probably sounded insensitive but it was true. But I also desperately wanted my brother to think deep and hard about the statements we were both making. I then asked him if he got right with God and repented of his sins. Our conversation pretty much fizzled out after he said, “Yes, I did. “ I so needed him to understand that he did need to repent for the sin in his life, he wasn’t innocent, none of us are. The conversation was awkward, to say the least, but awkward was the word of the day it seemed. You could cut the air with a knife it was so obvious I was offending him. He was in constant pain and organs were failing, I had to try and wake him up before it was too late.   

You see, according to my brother he was saved and didn’t need to worry about his judgment day because just a few years earlier he was in a church that had an altar call in which the person next to him said, “Do you want to go to the front?” The look on his face said, no way, as he just stood there silently watching it all but the person was so persistent, they took him by the arm and lead him to the front of the church. He seemed to go reluctantly so as not to call attention to himself but they shouldn’t have done that to him, it needed to be his choice, not theirs. Besides, I didn’t agree with the whole alter call farce in the first place. https://www.gotquestions.org/altar-calls.html   

My brother followed through, repeated a sentence, and they said he was saved. He walked away that day believing that was all it took. My brother continued in the same old ways he did before and I never did see a change in him in the years that followed. He never expressed a desire to even talk about God or what the Scripture said. In fact, he hated it whenever I did, which was all the time. Many times, he would humor me and listen briefly until he became exhausted with it and changed the subject. He claimed he didn’t need to talk about Jesus anymore because he was saved. One time he said, “Tami, I know Jesus, stop worrying about me” but I replied, “Satan knows Jesus, but that means nothing.” Anyone can claim they know Jesus but do they really? Just because they go to church, just because they pray at a meal or talk about Him means nothing. It’s not just knowing of Jesus that makes someone a Christian but desiring to know about Jesus and living our lives for Him that brings about change in us and gives us hope for our eternity. My brother didn’t live a life that reflected Jesus or salvation. I say this because God says in Matthew 7:16-20~ “You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes or figs from thistles? So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit.  Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus you will recognize them by their fruits.”      

This means we can know a person by how they live, what kind of character they have; do they live as a Christian and show evidence of salvation? This can give us an idea of their spiritual life and if they truly are living as a person that is saved. Any one of us could look at a friend or loved one and judge by how they live if they know ‘OF’ Jesus or really ‘KNOW’ and love Jesus. If your best friend never goes to church and has a record of cheating and lying, then just because they say they know Jesus and are a Christian means nothing. At the same time, this doesn’t mean that when that person dies, they can’t turn to Christ in the very last hour of their life and be forgiven and saved, as the thief on the cross did. Luke 23:39-43 talks of a thief nailed to a cross for his crimes and as he hung next to Jesus he repented and acknowledged Jesus as his Lord. Jesus tells us he went to paradise with Him. Remember salvation isn’t based on how perfect you are but on our faith in Jesus as the perfect sacrifice. The thief was lost one moment, found the next, what a celebration! 

Just as the thief got a chance to know Jesus, in John 9 a blind man also gets to know Jesus. When Jesus meets the blind man, He explains that the man was born blind so that God’s works might be displayed in him, and then Jesus heals him. The Pharisees brag to the blind man that God speaks to Moses and they are disciples of Moses but Jesus is a sinner and they don’t know where he comes from. The blind man says in John 9:31, 33, “You do not know where he comes from, and yet he opened my eyes. We know that God does not listen to sinners, but if anyone is a worshiper of God and does his will, God listens to him. If this man were not from God, he could do nothing.” In John 9: 35-38 Jesus asks the blind man if he believes in the Son of Man and the man asks, “And who is he, sir, that I may believe in him? Jesus said to him, You have seen him, and it is he who is speaking to you. He said, Lord, I believe, and he worshiped him. The Pharisees ask Jesus, Are we also blind? But Jesus answers, If you were blind, you would have no guilt; but now that you say, ‘We see,’ your guilt remains.”    

It’s important to understand that the blind man comes to know who Jesus truly is because he was given the gift to understand and comprehend through his sight. After Jesus heals him, he realizes that Jesus was from God and proclaims his ignorance of who Jesus is and his need to see spiritually so he could worship Him. The Pharisees on the other hand had the gift of sight but were spiritually blind because they had the opportunity to see the truth. They claimed to know God yet wrongfully accuses Jesus of being a sinner and not from God. They willingly remained in sin and rejected the truth to not believe in Jesus, making them guilty.     

Now, I do not think Jesus is saying that blind people don’t have the ability to know Him, because they do. They can hear the stories of Jesus in the Scripture today and be presented with the Gospel but back then Jesus was making a point that the blind man didn’t have the same opportunities as the Pharisees. He couldn’t read, no one shared with him the knowledge of who Jesus was, he couldn’t ‘see’ the works of God’s creation to be without excuse as explained in Romans 1:19-20 but that people can be guilty of sin when they have opportunities to know the truth as the Pharisees did but then reject it.   

We can read more on the meaning of that verse here, “Barnes’ Notes on the Bible~ “If ye were blind – If you were really blind and had no opportunities of learning the truth. If you were truly ignorant and were willing to confess it and to come to me for instruction. No sin – You would not be guilty. Sin is measured by the capacities or ability of people, and by their opportunities of knowing the truth. If people had no ability to do the will of God, they could incur no blame. If they have all proper ability, and no disposition, God holds them to be guilty. This passage teaches conclusively: 1) that people are not condemned for what they cannot do. 2) That the reason why they are condemned is that they are not disposed to receive the truth. 3) That pride and self-confidence are the sources of condemnation. 4) That if people are condemned, they, and not God, will be to blame. We see – We have knowledge of the law of God. This they had pretended when they professed to understand the law respecting the Sabbath better than Jesus, and had condemned him for healing on that day. Your sin remaineth – You are guilty, and your sin is unpardoned. People’s sins will always be unpardoned while they are proud and self-sufficient, and confident of their own wisdom. If they will come with humble hearts and confess their ignorance, God will forgive, enlighten, and guide them in the path to heaven.” 

Saying we know Jesus just doesn’t mean much if we turn from Him in our lives as the Pharisees did. The criminal and blind man came to faith but the ones that were seen as a religious sect that accepted the Old Testament as inspired by God didn’t. When I talk about the thief, the blind man, and the Pharisees these were men that didn’t know Jesus and when presented with the truth, they were all given the opportunity to believe in Jesus. So, what about people that don’t have the ability to understand the truth when presented to them such as babies and the mentally disabled? What happens to them at death. 

In 2 Samuel 12:22-23, we read about the death of David’s infant son, “He answered, “While the child was still alive, I fasted and wept. I thought, ‘Who knows? The Lord may be gracious to me and let the child live.’ But now that he is dead, why should I go on fasting? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me.”      

This shows that David had found comfort knowing he will see his child again but only by going to the same place his child went. We can only assume he believes the child is in heaven. He was in such sorrow while the child lay sick but after his child passed away David appears to have peace about where he believes his child to be and he stops fasting, cleans up, worships, and eats. David knows about God’s mercy and grace and believes the Lord will show his mercy and grace on his child and they will be together in heaven someday. 

It’s always heartbreaking when a baby passes but looking at the story of David can bring us comfort as well.  It’s common for people to wonder where babies go when they die or even the mentally disabled. How can we know for certain? Babies, and mentally disabled don’t know any better and don’t understand even what a sinner is, or why they need to repent, and even more so, know who Jesus is. You could explain the gospel to them a dozen times and they would never have the ability to understand it. That’s the difference, the blind man was given the opportunity to know the truth and he understood it yet with babies and mentally disabled they can’t comprehend the truth even if they were presented with the opportunity. Scriptures don’t specifically talk about where babies or the mentally disabled go after death. The only thing we have to go on to gain any knowledge from is within the Scripture’s accounts that speak of those that have died and by knowing the character of God such as in the story of the thief, the blind man, and David. Unfortunately, some faiths add to or take away from Scriptures to fit their own man-made beliefs such as infant baptism. Baptism is biblical but infant baptism is not. Some believe infants should be baptized so if they die, they go to heaven. Biblically, baptism doesn’t save babies or anyone, instead, it is a profession of faith, and a baby can’t profess faith in Jesus not to mention, Jesus wasn’t even baptized till he was an adult, which should tell us something. Baptism illustrates Christ’s death, burial, and resurrection and is done publicly of one’s own choice in a desire to express their love for Christ in the washing away of sins and believing the old life has died and a new life begins. It represents the dying of our flesh by fully being submerged in water (just as people that die are completely buried in the ground and not just sprinkled with a handful of dirt). Then when we rise from the water, we are a new person through Christ and have the hope of resurrection and eternal life. A new believer often shows evidence of their salvation by the desires for a biblical baptism. A lost person normally wouldn’t desire that at all. So, basically, baptism is pointless to a baby or someone that is mentally disabled because they are not capable of understanding the meaning behind it.      

Matthew 18:1–6, and Matthew 19:13–15, are comforting examples of how God loves children and says for believers to be like children. He speaks of them being the greatest in the kingdom and that the kingdom of heaven belongs to them. I think of all the small children and infants that have died through abuse, abortion, and sicknesses and are in heaven now. God’s character is shown through such gentle words that bring much peace.   

​The reality of how short life is becomes painfully clear when a child dies. Life is short no matter what because the moment we are born we start to die, some faster than others. Job 14:1~“Man who is born of a woman is few of days and full of trouble.” Compared to eternal life it is but a blink which is why God commands us to share the gospel to help people know the Lord and find salvation before they die. Once a person dies there are no more chances to get right with the Lord. Although God does the saving and ordained us before birth to be sealed for salvation, we are still called by God to point people back to Christ and His Word and share the gospel. We will never know the true outcome of anyone we share the gospel with but we just need to be obedient, reach out to the lost, and speak the truth. 

Unlike the thief on the cross spending his life as a criminal yet becoming heaven-bound in his last moments with Christ, there are people that live their whole life as Christians doing good works on a daily basis yet will be Hell-bound without Christ. The word ‘Christian’ is a title that anyone can claim and anyone can fake but one thing’s for certain, they can never deceive the Lord. Anyone can say they read the Bible and know Jesus, remember, Satan knows Jesus! The question we need to ask is, does the Lord know us? Well, of course, our Lord knows everyone, but that’s not what I’m getting at. If you don’t have faith in Jesus and desire to seek after truth, even though you defiantly have the opportunity to you won’t know the Father’s will and instead, you will believe in things not of God. Then He will declare to you He NEVER knew you. Matthew 7:21-23~“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’”      

This is stating that they are not identified as true believers. They believe in a different god, a different Jesus. They may seem like a good Christian when they brag about doing good deeds like prophesying, casting out demons, and doing many good works in the name of God but that will not get them into Heaven because God sees right through them and knows their hearts.  

When a person dies, no number of good deeds spoken at their funeral will get them into Heaven either. In fact, normally people speak about the deceased as a good person who’s in Heaven with Jesus now and suggest they are no longer suffering. I can only assume people say these things because they don’t know what else to say and they desire to comfort those in pain. There isn’t anything bad in what they say except biblically it’s misleading because we don’t know where they are. Sure, in some cases, there are people who do go to Heaven but not everyone. When people die, they ARE with Jesus but for the purpose of being judged, Hebrews 9:27~ ”And just as it is appointed for man to die once, and after thatcomes judgment,”Revelation 20:11–15tells us that the dead stand before the throne and are judged according to what they had done and if anyone’s name was not found written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire. Matthew 7:13–14 speaks of the difficulty in going to Heaven and says it’s a narrow gate and only a few will find it but many will go to the wide gate that will lead to Hell. Doesn’t seem like very good odds.  When anyone dies, they are judged; they stand face to face with God but will they remain in His presence or be cast out? I’d like to challenge you that for every funeral you go to, remember these verses. This should cause you great concern for the lost. It shouldn’t be easy to assume everyone you know is Heaven bound because the truth is more people will go to Hell. This is why the saying, they aren’t suffering anymore, isn’t true for everyone either. For those that are condemned to Hell, it is a place of torment and pain. In the Bible, even the rich man in Hell wanted to warn his family about it but couldn’t. One of the more disturbing phrases I’ve heard at funerals is, “they are looking down on you” or “they are watching over you.” For many, this also means the dead are active or invested in the lives of the living somehow. Unexplained activity is often blamed on dead loved ones suggesting the dead are ghosts. Ghosts are not real, but demons are and they are not to be messed with. Turn to the Lord, ask for forgiveness, and pray, for He is the only one they fear. Just as people believe the dead watch over them, some believe Saints in Heaven are a bit different because they are seen as holy and will come to watch over us if we pray to them. They have been credited with helping people find lost articles and even selling houses, none of which is biblical.  

After someone dies, they do not remain on earth or come back from Heaven or Hell because in 2 Corinthians 5:8, the Bible tells us that when we are absent from the body, we are present with the Lord. Hebrews 9:27 says man dies once then judged. Revelation 20:11–15 tells us the dead are judged and if they are not in the book of life they are thrown into the lake of fire.  

So, it’s apparent that the only one that watches over us is our Lord. Psalm 121:7-8The LORD keeps you from all harm and watches over your life. The LORD keeps watch over you as you come and go, both now and forever. It is also written in 1 John 5:18 that Jesus holds us securely, and the evil one cannot touch us. Jeremiah 1:19 says the Lord rescues. Psalm 3:5 says the LORD was watching over His children. Psalm 31:23 says “the LORD preserves those who are true to him, but the proud he pays back in full.” If God is watching over us, then why would we want anyone else doing that? What makes us think our loved ones in Heaven want to watch over us when they are in a place that is so wonderful? I’m thinking I wouldn’t waste my time watching over anyone on Earth when I have all the wonders of Heaven to explore. Those in Hell wouldn’t be able to either or care because sadly they are suffering. Nowhere in Scriptures do we read the dead in Heaven or Hell are able or even unable to watch over us. But we can be sure that if they are watching us, they will be in complete agreement with the Lord’s dealings on earth. Those in Heaven are changed to have perfect understanding and complete peace with God’s will. There is a time where those in Heaven will follow Christ into battle and witness the wrath of God taking place as He kills and destroys everyone who’s evil. 

My heart ached so badly when my brother died because all I knew of him was his fruits and they were not good fruits. Sure, there were times he was kind and had ways of bringing laughter to people but again being nice doesn’t get you to Heaven, it’s having faith in Jesus and being transformed in the mind and heart through salvation. You hate sin and desire to live a righteous life. The only thing I can hope for is that my brother had a ‘thief on the cross’ moment that was truly genuine and humble just before he died. God shows us an act of love in giving us the ability to repent and be forgiven but only while we live.   

1 John 2:2~“He is the propitiation for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world.” God provides THE way to the Father through Jesus; we can’t find Him in any other way. God is also so merciful to forgive but we mustn’t forget that God is also just, which means our sins must be punished. In order for us to escape punishment, Jesus must cover us with His blood and if we deny that gift then we pay for our sins apart from Jesus. Someday God will come calling for us all and you will either stand guilty before the throne of God or you will stand covered by the blood of Jesus and forgiven. 

Everyone’s days are numbered and no one knows when God has appointed us to take our last breath. But think for a moment when we do, what is going to be the last thing we leave behind? What will be the last words from our lips? Are we going to leave something that honors God or will shame God? What will people say about you?  

I know I deserve hell because I’m a wretched person but I am also grateful and thankful that God called me to be saved and Jesus has covered my sins and I will someday be in the presence of God for eternity. Not because of any good deeds I did or because I’m a swell person-I’m not. I can only brag that Jesus was the reason I was saved, changed, and forgiven at all. I don’t deserve any credit or a “Well done good and faithful servant”. 

Do you have the assurance of salvation? “1 John 5:11–13, “And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life”. Who is it that has the Son? It is those who have believed in Him (John 1:12). If you have Jesus, you have life. Not temporary life, but eternal.”  

From, https://www.gotquestions.org/assurance-salvation.html 

For more on sharing the gospel click on this link https://biblicalbeginningsblog.wordpress.com/2021/02/02/through-the-narrow-casting-and-clutching-your-pearls-by-gina-cook/#respond    


Above is an article written by Tami Dykes, Gina and Tami write Through the Narrow here at Tulips & Honey Hub. They’ll be posting articles every other Tuesday. Both are published authors, you can find Tami’s book here, and Gina’s book here. We’re blessed to have them apart of our team, and pray their writing will be as edifying to you as it is to us. – Lauren Hereford